The server and mod itself are currently in their baby stages, everything that is wrong with my server is true and is my fault. These things will not go unfixed, I am working hard to try and make the server a better place.
I admit to everything that is wrong with server and hope to make it better in the future, there is no excuse for what is currently wrong with it.
Well... I didn't expect that. Most people charge into drama with the mindset that the person they're "dramaing" is hostile and that they should preemptively take on a hostile demeanor too. That's probably why posts like this feel so strange in drama, and yet, they're quite pleasant surprises.
I suppose you should start by knocking those two rules off the list. It would certainly make the server seem more welcoming. I'll admit I haven't actually experienced much of the server, but from what I've heard, I can offer this advice:
Take measures to spread out players based on their level, such as creating higher level towns in higher level areas, and fill it with things that higher level players would find interesting, and let people opt to spawn there. This will segregate players by level, and should cut down on conflicts between players of vastly different levels until proper player combat mechanics can be implemented. If this already applies and I just never heard of it or learned of it in my 2 minutes of being on the server, disregard this bit.