I'm almost positive Iban is still reading this topic, so I'm directing this post at him.
Iban, have you ever been burned? You know, even just a tiny brush against a hot stove. I'm sure you have, sometimes the pain lasts for hours and their isn't much you can do to stop it. But thats just a little, loving, spot.
Imagine that pain all over your body. I know firefighters who have had flashovers explode in their faces. I have treated people with 1st and 2nd degree burns up their entire arms, some saying it is the worst pain they have ever felt. I know of a firefighter who was trapped in a burning building. He is in intensive care, most of the skin on his face is peeling off and his ears are melted down to his loving neck. They don't think he is going to make it.
Now, imagine a three year old child going through that. You are a sick, loving up human being for wishing that upon the innocent child of somebody you don't like.
Seek help.