Author Topic: Hankyje:"You cant have a relationship before 16  (Read 10198 times)

You didn't reply to my post which addressed that.

Talking to a girl as a friend, isn't talking to a girl as a boyfriend. The two are completely different. You're going to fall into the "nice guy" trap and land yourself in the friend zone.
But as post before you said you dont need to have love.
So what would be so bad about a "friend zone"
People could be married as friends, because, isnt that what marriage is or is supposed to be usually?

Talking doesnt equal a first hand experience of a relationship?
How so?
First off someone who is just your friend wouldn't talk as openly about some things as a girlfriend would.
Second, are you just going to go to your friends and be like "so how can i pleasure you?" obviously not like that but you will never be able to learn how to feel, pleasure and all around be socially acceptable with your girlfriend.


First off someone who is just your friend wouldn't talk as openly about some things as a girlfriend would.
Second, are you just going to go to your friends and be like "so how can i pleasure you?" obviously not like that but you will never be able to learn how to feel, pleasure and all around be socially acceptable with your girlfriend.
But you dont understand, I was referring to Bolsters post at the second part.
And of course you can openly discuss things with friends that you would with a bf/gf.


So what would be so bad about a "friend zone"
People could be married as friends, because, isnt that what marriage is or is supposed to be usually?
hohoho you obviously don't know the horrors of the friend zone. Read up my friend.


hohoho you obviously don't know the horrors of the friend zone. Read up my friend.

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Its irrelevant.
If you are a friend of someone you are not always in the "friend zone"

Do you have to make 1 or 2 word responses to everything, even just emoticons?

lovah,u will neva kno

But you dont understand, I was referring to Bolsters post at the second part.
And of course you can openly discuss things with friends that you would with a bf/gf.
That depends on the person, i mean really would you right now go to your friends and ask how you can pleasure them or how they would forget you? nop
Even still when it comes to interacting physically which you are encouraging when you get to ~18 you will have no idea what to do, people might tell you what to do but there's a difference between knowing what to do and being able to do it.

That depends on the person, i mean really would you right now go to your friends and ask how you can pleasure them or how they would forget you? nop
Even still when it comes to interacting physically which you are encouraging when you get to ~18 you will have no idea what to do, people might tell you what to do but there's a difference between knowing what to do and being able to do it.
But what if you are not in it for it physically, just to have an emotional relationship?


But what if you are not in it for it physically, just to have an emotional relationship?

Ever? Like meet someone when your 25, get married and die at like 80, a virgin?
Even if this was your plan good like finding a girl who would go along with it even just up to marriage, 95% chance she would just divorce you.

Its irrelevant.
If you are a friend of someone you are not always in the "friend zone"
I think you're going to have to experience it before you actually understand what i'm trying to say.

Relationship consisting of friendship =/= boyfriend/girlfriend relationship - without meaning this in a richard way, you might have to actually go out with a girl to see the difference

But what if you are not in it for it physically, just to have an emotional relationship?

You are male, if you're after 'Just an emotional relationship', you're doing something wrong or haven't gone through puberty yet.


Ever? Like meet someone when your 25, get married and die at like 80, a virgin?
Even if this was your plan good like finding a girl who would go along with it even just up to marriage, 95% chance she would just divorce you.
I'm just talking about dating, we'll talk about marriage later ;)
I think you're going to have to experience it before you actually understand what i'm trying to say.

Relationship consisting of friendship =/= boyfriend/girlfriend relationship - without meaning this in a richard way, you might have to actually go out with a girl to see the difference
You are male, if you're after 'Just an emotional relationship', you're doing something wrong or haven't gone through puberty yet.
But, I have dated before. So therefore I have experienced it


As for the "just an emotional relationship" I'm not backing up me but people I know.