Poll

Is it best to stay home from school when a family member dies?

Yes
21 (77.8%)
No
6 (22.2%)

Total Members Voted: 27

Author Topic: Grandpa died :(  (Read 2271 times)

Just came back from school: Is it better to stay at home when a family member or loved one dies?
My mom made me go to school today
No
It's best to attempt to go on with your life without a loved one.

If you don't go to the funeral you will only regret it later.
(im not sure if it has already been or not)

If you don't go to the funeral you will only regret it later.
(im not sure if it has already been or not)
no it hasnt been yet but i cant because
1) Its in poland
2) The flight tickets cost a fortune
3) I have f****n school.

Awww, sorry to hear that.


Its better to stay home. Not good to go to school emotionally distracted. The absence is excused too.

Sorry for your loss. This saddens me because my father recently traveled overseas as my grandfather was about to pass away from sickness.

He is in Sovngarde now.
I'm sure he was a good man.
Really?


I hear Alduin's there to feed on souls...May we pray to Talos that he doesn't get lost in the fog..

A day before my Grandpa died, I saw him. He was weak, could barely speak, and his heart was giving out. But the greatest thing that came out of it, was that he still remembered me. He told me he loved me and he said that people come and go. He was expected to die at midnight the next day, and him dying at the same moment you are thinking of him is speechless.

Just came back from school: Is it better to stay at home when a family member or loved one dies?
My mom made me go to school today
Get out of the house. Do not stay indoors. It's darker inside, it's stuffy compared to the outside, and it's lonely. Do you think that will help your mood? Not one bit. Your grandpa has lived his life, and he's gone now. There is nothing you can do about it. There isn't any use moping about it. If you want to mourn, sure that's alright, but don't mope. Chances are, depending on how he lived his life, he's in a better place than this world. If I were you (which at more than one point, I was in your place,) I'd get out, live my life, and make sure that I end up in the right place, which is hopefully, with him.

Just came back from school: Is it better to stay at home when a family member or loved one dies?
My mom made me go to school today
Go to school. When someone dies you get a day of moping then you need to move on. Don't live in the past.


I remember my great grandpa died and when I got over that a week later my grandpa died. It was a rough thanksgiving...

Mhmm, my grandfather is kinda crazy and dumb, but I love him and I try to love him as much as I can. My sister makes fun of him a lot and she is just really rude to my grandparents. I tell her that is the only grandfather you will ever have.

Ontopic: Really sad :C I would say to go to the funeral

Mhmm, my grandfather is kinda crazy and dumb, but I love him and I try to love him as much as I can. My sister makes fun of him a lot and she is just really rude to my grandparents. I tell her that is the only grandfather you will ever have.

Ontopic: Really sad :C I would say to go to the funeral

my dads leaving tomorrow and bought the tickets.
no it hasnt been yet but i cant because
1) Its in poland
2) The flight tickets cost a fortune
3) I have f****n school.