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Xalos, the stubborn
jockeykiller:
You're now probably panning me from your "amazing server."
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oh crap I'm getting panned
Kalphiter:
--- Quote from: Xalos on February 21, 2012, 11:41:14 AM ---By the Halls, people; if you want to make me upset, at least do it in a way which works. I couldn't care less what you think of my server. From my perspective, the greater majority of you have been banned or permabanned from my server multiple times. That doesn't exactly give you a high weight factor in my opinion brown townysis; some of you actually have a weight of zero.
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You're just like the Red Queen in Alice in Wonderland. She always yelled "off with his/the head" whenever one of her flaws was pointed out or she felt threatened by another person. This character fits you. A person says something little about you, whether it be healthy or unhealthy criticism, and you go ahead and permaban them even if they don't play on your server. Guess what, just like the queen in the story, you no longer have any power. People start turning against you once they get pissed off by your attitude, deserting you, and then you end up banning them. The problem is, as I mentioned, the bans end up not being effective much like the queen's orders when her army insurrects her.
You will end up killing (banning) everyone before you're happy, even you're friends.
Xalos:
--- Quote from: jockeykiller on February 21, 2012, 01:51:40 PM ---
You're now probably panning me from your "amazing server."
oh crap I'm getting panned
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You're making fun of yourself, you know. Plus, I have never claimed my server is amazing. Ever.
Also, "no offense", really? That statement was engineered to be offensive.
Just because a reader makes an inference does not necessarily mean implication on the part of the author.
Plus Kalphiter is just bitching because he was telling other server members who the killers were over RTB - which as I recall he said he was going to crush.
While I'm willing to admit that I ban for reasons which make no sense, I also have to point out this happens on my bad days. On good days, I'm extremely rational and try not to ban without good reason. However, all you people see is the pissed-off Xalos who can't take a chill pill. (Yes, I see him too, because I regret what I do when I get really, really angry.)
However, what really bugs me is that you people don't know how to forgive. If there was a grudge-holding contest between the forums and an elephant, the forums would win. I, at least, forgive. Until you can learn to do that simple feat as well, I see no reason to unban you when your only act will be to bitch at me about how "Xalos is a bad host!"
Why forgive someone who won't forgive you?
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If you're capable of forgiveness, then you wouldn't constantly dish out permabans.
Headcrab Zombie:
--- Quote from: Xalos on February 21, 2012, 03:05:35 PM ---However, what really bugs me is that you people don't know how to forgive. If there was a grudge-holding contest between the forums and an elephant, the forums would win. I, at least, forgive. Until you can learn to do that simple feat as well, I see no reason to unban you when your only act will be to bitch at me about how "Xalos is a bad host!"
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There's a point where forgiving people over and over just gets stupid.
If people forgive you, and rejoin, they'll likely just get banned again during another one of your "bad days"
Having a bad day and taking it out on others is something a child does. You can't do this and expect people to want to be around you, no matter how good you are on other days