that is the worst advice ever, you are an idiot.
OP don't listen to zloff if you want to salvage at least some of your pride.
explain
Aight, you asked for it.
1)I met this girl at Dare2Share two years ago (Oh forget)
2)thought she was pretty, never said a word to her
3) saw her a year later at Work Camp
4)Started talking to her, and told her I had a crush on her(bad move)
5)She said she was focused on other things at the time
6)I overdid it(like scenario 1)
7)We stopped talking
9) i saw her two weeks ago.
10) told her I was different now(lies) and that i still had a little crush on her(forgeted up again)
11) she tells me that she likes someone else
12)next day she says she "talking" to someone else
13)last text I sent was "So it has to be like that, because of everything I did before, I get no chance now, alright, well even if we can't have any relationship at all, I'm sorry for what happened before, bye"
I stopped there, because I don't want another black guy up in my face
I was just kidding that stuff would ruin him
and psh sorry for being so anti-'give up' at first, I never give and then almost always work out for me
There goes my one supporter.
forgetit.