I'm not sure why you called them loveist douchebags, everyones views made sense.
Looks aren't everything but they should be... 50% of decision-making. Not necessarily at your age, but once you get older, loveual relations play a huge role in actual love. And you don't want to be going down on someone that feels like a pillow. But I actually met my current lover at the age of 13, of course we were just friends then because I didn't have feelings for girls, but now we're 18 and as close to love as I think is real.
It's fine if the girl asks first, just don't drop your spaghetti
