Author Topic: I'm socially awkward  (Read 2418 times)

people skills are something you need to practice and you're not going to get them from just school

start going out more in your free time - doesn't matter where you go or what you do

yeah Im actually pretty good with starting converstations
but its maintaining the conversation :l

yeah Im actually pretty good with starting converstations
but its maintaining the conversation :l
what's your self esteem like?

like, in my french class, we have assigned tables, and at the beginning of the semester, this one girl in my table was so nice to me, we were actually like best friends for a while, then after being in the same class for a while, she started to think I was annoying, even though I was being myself for the entire semester already.
there is your loving problem.

and I also can't talk to other people without being awkward, it makes me loving mad at the end of the day.

what's your self esteem like?

well days like this, pretty low
but that one day when I asked this girl for a number, my esteem was in the sky
and surprisingly, it wasnt awkward at all :o

"what the forget are you doing, oh my god"
This was completely uncalled for, don't let stuff like this hurt you


This was completely uncalled for, don't let stuff like this hurt you
much easier said than done

anyway i know i'm going to sound like a broken record here, but ever thought of attending a gym or something like that? gym has the benefit of being with people, while working on your body (building self esteem).

also cut out research all together and try and restrict fapping to 1-2 times a week (this is the reason i say that)

This was completely uncalled for, don't let stuff like this hurt you
meh, he could have been dumbassing around and damaging her glasses

or embarrassing her

meh, he could have been dumbassing around and damaging her glasses

or embarrassing her

it was my friend's glasses.

much easier said than done

anyway i know i'm going to sound like a broken record here, but ever thought of attending a gym or something like that? gym has the benefit of being with people, while working on your body (building self esteem).

also cut out research all together and try and restrict fapping to 1-2 times a week (this is the reason i say that)

yeah, im actually planning on swimming every day in the summer in the mornings

yeah, im actually planning on swimming every day in the summer in the mornings
good start

how about picking up a team sport?

yeah, im actually planning on swimming every day in the summer in the mornings
attending a gym is very different from swimming.  go running and do bodyweight exercises (pushups, pullups, dips, squats, crunches, etc) in the mornings instead.

attending a gym is very different from swimming.  go running and do bodyweight exercises (pushups, pullups, dips, squats, crunches, etc) in the mornings instead.
i more suggested it for the human interaction than the body building

Get friends. Have them introduce you to more people. Ya

i more suggested it for the human interaction than the body building
oh i guess that's true too.  i've never really struck up conversation with anyone in the gym, so imo a team sport, like you said, would be better.

oh i guess that's true too.  i've never really struck up conversation with anyone in the gym, so imo a team sport, like you said, would be better.
really? my gym must have been really social then

it was all about the people there

and yeah team sport is the way to go