Relationships Megathread - Ask questions, get answers, discuss love and romance

[Broze]

How do you make love?

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[comr4de]

stik weaner in hol

[Wynd_Fox]

Golden rule from Jeep: Don't trust anyone. Or learn the hard way ;)

What are you, Littlefinger? That's some of the worst advice I've ever heard, when applied to anything.

[Uncle Bengs]

[duke 838]

forums take on long distance relationships?

[Böltster]

forums take on long distance relationships?

pointless, waste of time

[Daedalus]

forums take on long distance relationships?

for the most part, stuffty
depends on if it's going to be permanently long distance, and if so, for how long
but otherwise,

pointless, waste of time

[duke 838]

for the most part, stuffty
depends on if it's going to be permanently long distance, and if so, for how long
but otherwise,

roughly a bit over a year

[Frontrox]

pointless, waste of time

Sometimes

[Daedalus]

roughly a bit over a year

ehh, if you're committed and you can actually visit each other, then it doesn't seem that absurd
dunno though, I'd trust your instinct

[Yosher]

"alone by choice" thing I find is usually bullstuff - it just means that they either can't get a girl because they don't think they're good enough or they got hurt at one point and can't get over it.

actually i am alone by choice. not sure if i'm going to be taken seriously because i'm 13 but i've never even tried to get a girlfriend. everyone i've seen in a relationship or marriage so far has been fighting constantly. i've witnessed my parents fight constantly the first 7 years of my life and eventually they divorced. everyone at school i've seen with a girlfriend so far has been constantly fighting with them and most of them are "douchebag hipster swag" girls that i would not even want to interact with one second. being alone just seems better but then again, i'm just 13 and i don't know anything about this stuff yet. i still think i'm going to end up alone though, because most relationships i've seen so far have ended and i don't want to go through that pain. i've also seen no girls in my life that have the same interests as me.

[Daedalus]

actually i am alone by choice. not sure if i'm going to be taken seriously because i'm 13 but i've never even tried to get a girlfriend. everyone i've seen in a relationship or marriage so far has been fighting constantly. i've witnessed my parents fight constantly the first 7 years of my life and eventually they divorced. everyone at school i've seen with a girlfriend so far has been constantly fighting with them and most of them are "douchebag hipster swag" girls that i would not even want to interact with one second. being alone just seems better but then again, i'm just 13 and i don't know anything about this stuff yet. i still think i'm going to end up alone though, because most relationships i've seen so far have ended and i don't want to go through that pain. i've also seen no girls in my life that have the same interests as me.

I think you're just in a stuffty environment for your interest/personality.
Fighting shouldn't generalize relationships - you're just around people who can't loving hold a relationship up. :U
But I digress.
I understand where you're coming from, and you just seem like you're in the wrong place.
Question - what grade are you in?

[danisaac5]

At thirteen I honestly don't see why you should have a girlfriend/boyfriend. Just have fun with friends, be stupid. That's all you really need at that age.

Every person in my middle school who had a "girlfriend" or "boyfriend" were with that person for one week and then it was over. I don't see the point in having a "relationship" at all if it's going to be like that. It also annoyed me because those people claimed they loved their boyfriend/girlfriend so much and that they would never break up but that's exactly what they did. The only reason they were in a "relationship" was because they got pressured by their peers.

irrelevant, theres a couple in my year who have been going out nearly a entire year
an entire loving year

[Yosher]

irrelevant, theres a couple in my year who have been going out nearly a entire year
an entire loving year

yeah well most people of our age just date to show that they are very "mature", not because they are in love.
there was a couple in my class a few months ago and they acted like loving little children. they had to go into their "private" hallway and yes, that is true. they spoke with their parents and their parents spoke with the school, now they and one other girl have a private hallway for themselves. the bad thing is that that hallway is the only way to the place where the people are who take care of the special classes business, so every time i stepped into that hallway i had to hear their endless complaints about how it was their hallway and the worst part is that this actually turned into a 6 month long argument in our class. they kept saying we bullied them by stepping into this hall, teacher took it seriously and there we were listening to endless lectures about how we're not supposed to step into a hall even though we had valid reasons for it every time.

anyways, they had to go into their private hallway just to hug eachother. this shows they were not in love at all, they were just trying to show they were "oh-so-mature". they couldn't do it in public.

[Böltster]

yeah well most people of our age just date to show that they are very "mature", not because they are in love.

that's because 13 year olds can't fall in love

anyway i think it's stupid to say "i prefer to me alone" because all you're doing is basically restricting yourself when the reality is you just haven't been presented with the option to be in a relationship. young relationships make good practice for the little things.

roughly a bit over a year

do you actually see her, and how often?