yeah but why do you ever try to hold it in?
I just don't like to leave a mess. I know my parents are gonna find out if I leave just a slight mess. When I have it held in, I would put my pants back on, still holding it, and go to the toilet to let it out there.
When I decide not to hold it, I would always sneak about 4 pieces of toilet paper before doing so. 2 for catching it and 2 for wiping my snake.