Stocking

[Böltster]

Yeah, the purpose of me citing it was to block her trying to claim another man as 'pathetic' since Regulith is somewhat well known around here, and he's really cool. I don't think even Stocking would pull something stupid like that.

well imo he's pretty desperate to begin with if he's edating (you too). so you coming out as whatever you are and him staying hardly shows he's dedicated and loves you - that's just the nature of internet relationships, perpetually forgeted up.

on the topic of you, what are you exactly? boy wishing to be a girl? boy who had love change? cross dresser? what? still haven't got my head around it and not up for pages of reading

[Ad Bot]

[Dusty12]

i just think you cant use the whole 'transgender' stuff to woe everyone over

you were still being a bitch and stocking just put you in your place, cant try and make everyone feel sorry for you because your brain / body / w/e is inconsistent with your gender.

PS: I don't. In fact, I've never tried to rebuke an argument with 'I'm transgendered', or used it as a way to make people pity me. I might have said something stupid when Comr4de posted that 'Sue is a man' topic and if I did I'll admit to it, but I certainly don't think that way anymore. I really don't want people to pity me.

Also, I wasn't being a bitch. I didn't even try to be malicious towards Bubba. I stated my opinion on a drama topic about her, when Stocking burst in an incorrectly attributed my distaste with Bubba's threadstuffting because I was jealous of her having a vagina.

[Dusty12]

well imo he's pretty desperate to begin with if he's edating (you too). so you coming out as whatever you are and him staying hardly shows he's dedicated and loves you - that's just the nature of internet relationships, perpetually forgeted up.

on the topic of you, what are you exactly? boy wishing to be a girl? boy who had love change? cross dresser? what? still haven't got my head around it and not up for pages of reading

If you want to think of it like that, you can. I don't think it's pathetic, and I still think he showed devotion to me. But to each his own I guess.

To answer your question: I'm a transwoman. Male to female.

[Böltster]

To answer your question: I'm a transwoman. Male to female.

so you're a bloke who has a girl mind?

and I still think he showed devotion to me.

internet relationships don't take much devotion full stop. that's why they can't be compared to real life

[Dusty12]

so you're a bloke who has a girl mind?
internet relationships don't take much devotion full stop. that's why they can't be compared to real life

Yeah.
And maybe. I haven't had much success when it came to the internet, so you're probably right. It just seemed like a big deal to me. I lied to him for awhile, and then when it comes out it raises a lot of questions for the guy. Questioning his loveuality and everything like that. It took him a bit but he came back, so I felt that was something important.

[Böltster]

how do relationships even work for you irl? the whole having-a-richard thing would have to be a major show stopper, so does that mean your relationships haven't been physical/intimate?

[Dusty12]

It's complicated. I myself am antsy when it comes to intimacy due to obvious reasons. Should things actually escalate to a certain level, it happens without focusing on me. It just makes me feel really bad. That type of deep physical intimacy is something she's probably had a lot more than me, because with this current body I just can't do it. I want to, but I can't.

Did I imply I had more love than her? I really didn't mean to, because that would be very untrue.

[Böltster]

It's complicated. I myself am antsy when it comes to intimacy due to obvious reasons. Should things actually escalate to a certain level, it happens without focusing on me. It just makes me feel really bad. That type of deep physical intimacy is something she's probably had a lot more than me, because with this current body I just can't do it. I want to, but I can't.

Did I imply I had more love than her? I really didn't mean to, because that would be very untrue.

no, and that's not how i've taken it

what you have said is that you're outperforming her and having more successful relationships than her. as far as i've read you're completely inexperienced when it comes to physical intimacy and how that ties in to a legitimately successful relationship. i'm not saying love defines what is a good relationship and what isn't, but love and physical intimacy in general is a huge damn part of it, so for you to speak down to her from a position of complete ignorance is pretty wrong to me

[Dusty12]

I can understand where you're coming from. In reality, I did post the OP when I was sincerely angry by what she had said, though that really is no excuse. So I do concede that you're right, and I was wrong in what I said. I shouldn't have talked down at her to begin with.

I still don't think her behavior is justified, however. Though I slipped up by responding with even more hate-filled trash, I won't budge on that fact. What she said was completely out of line. Her previous behavior, especially the issue with Comr4de's sister (which I was previously totally unaware of) is also detestable.

[Frontrox]

What about comr4de's sister?

[Dusty12]

What about comr4de's sister?

It was one of the links in the OP.

http://forum.blockland.us/index.php?topic=158040.0

[Frontrox]

Oh yeah

[Darkness ZXW]

She's hot so I don't care.

And of all the girls that you could whiteknight because of looks, you chose Stocking?

[BubbaGum]

Yeah, you're the center of the universe.

what..?
I was just stating my opinion on the situation.

[BubbaGum]

Also: After rereading the original post , I know your trying to defend yourself but a lot of the stuff you said is hateful too.  How can you expect fair treatment from others when you yourself are acting no better than them. Even if you simply "snapped" after all the mean things Stocking did, I don't believe the most mature thing to do was insult her back.