So you're hating on people with birth defects? I have some, and I find this offensive.
Anyways, you're a little brat. I hate people like you. I've seen people try to argue like this. Person 1 says something slightly offensive, and then Person 2 makes some bullstuff up and applies that "offensive remark" to them in some sort of pitiful way to make Person 1 look like an starfish.
I also hate people who get upset when someone says something that happens to offend them and then they get angry about it, when there is no way someone could possibly know that would offend you. So by your logic we might as well assume everyone is a handicap and not use the word handicap and possibly offend them.