No such thing as real love. 'Love' is an attraction between beings which eventually results in reproduction. The meaning of our existence is reproduction.
Males look at breasts because they signify fertility of the woman and her capability to feed the newborn child.
Males look at waists because wider hips mean less chances of miscarriage.
Males may look at 'beauty' or the face of a woman and be critical because her symmetry reflects the quality of her genes.
If a woman complains about being groped or being looked at, she's probably either ignorant or dishonest about the true nature of things.
We do have gender roles. In fact, in today's society the gender roles are being reversed; men are being nurturing and succumbing to orders, while woman are taking the reigns in a relationship. This results in dissatisfaction for both parties, but regardless our social norms today preach to us that feminism is - undoubtedly - correct. This is very questionable.
Everything is based around reproduction. If you like movies, that's totally irrelevant. It's just something you do to remain mildly entertained when not engaging in loveual activities.
In fact, if it wasn't about survival or reproducing, what would life be about? Making art? No. Otherwise we wouldn't exist here today. So long as the primitive part of our brains remains influential in our actions and thoughts, absolutely everything will have some connection to love, however prominent or subtle. Regardless of any of your opinions, it is beneficial to us all, just as it is to bacteria. We are a much more complex organism in comparison to some other animals and species, but the principle remains the same. Just because we are considered 'intelligent' doesn't entitle us to a status 'beyond' other beings or forms of life. We are just another type of organism.
Our personalities, or our 'souls' as some of you more faithful folks might call it, are all based on a combination of neurons and environmental factors. We are in fact just brains controlling a facility of organs with the ultimate goal of producing at least 20% non-defective sperm out of 40 million, then delivering it to a female's egg which may or may not be successful in the end. In fact, about 10% of couples today are infertile. Anyway, we aren't people. We are not individual beings that are supernatural and earn a place in a distant universe because we followed the ever-changing norms, views and standards of society. We are animals, like any other. Do bacteria go to hell? No? Why do we then? Because we have more cells?