shyGriff - Episodes 1-3, "facepalm, frick, im bored lol"

[Glassy¹]

fun fact of the day: i do talk to people, i do try, i am very very very slowly improving but I DO NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING EXTREME.
i try to answer questions at church and such and i'm able to half of the time, but that's a lot different than just going up to strangers or going to actual school.

Look at me, I'm an extremist for making small talk.

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[shyGriff]

Look at me, I'm an extremist for making small talk.

what

[Blocklandian¹]

fun fact of the day: i do talk to people, i do try, i am very very very slowly improving but I DO NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING EXTREME.
i try to answer questions at church and such and i'm able to half of the time, but that's a lot different than just going up to strangers or going to actual school.

Those are not by any means "Extreme", You're just not trying to actually socialize with children , You could actually try multiple things such as asking them what kind of things they like, You should stop relying on the the internet to solve your problems and try doing something such as asking your parents for help.

[shyGriff]

Those are not by any means "Extreme", You're just not trying to actually socialize with children , You could actually try multiple things such as asking them what kind of things they like, You should stop relying on the the internet to solve your problems and try doing something such as asking your parents for help.

i don't get it
you people say "GO SOCIALIZE RHRHRHRHRHRH" and i AM socializing
so what if it's small things? i'd rather start small and take it easy than suddenly jump into the difficult stuff and become suicidal

[Glassy¹]

what

You said you didn't want to be extreme and talk to someone, Must mean I am a super extremist.

[Blocklandian¹]

i don't get it
you people say "GO SOCIALIZE RHRHRHRHRHRH" and i AM socializing
so what if it's small things? i'd rather start small and take it easy than suddenly jump into the difficult stuff and become suicidal

I'm not yelling at you telling you to force you to socialize, I'm calmly trying to tell you that you can start off by trying to socialize with people at school, You could try to find someone that won't try to force you instantly into lots of social activity by finding a calm and respectful person, You can really make a difference if you actually try.

[Maxwell23461]

i don't get it
you people say "GO SOCIALIZE RHRHRHRHRHRH" and i AM socializing
so what if it's small things? i'd rather start small and take it easy than suddenly jump into the difficult stuff and become suicidal

just ignore blocklandian.

[Mordius]

Listen to blocklandian, his advice is priceless

fixd

[shyGriff]

list of things i am not doing yet

• directly going up to someone and starting a conversation
• going to school
• going to a therapist
• talking to people on skype

list of things i am doing

• attempting to answer basic questions at church
• actually looking at people
• just being around people

does this explain what point i'm at
i am just doing kinda easy things at first

[Glassy¹]

list of things i am not doing yet

• directly going up to someone and starting a conversation
• going to school
• going to a therapist
• talking to people on skype

list of things i am doing

• attempting to answer basic questions at church

• actually looking at people

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• just being around people

does this explain what point i'm at
i am just doing kinda easy things at first

Thats just....Where do I start.

[Maxwell23461]

You should try and start skyping once you feel confident enough, if your parents are ok with hearing you.

[Glassy¹]

list of things i am not doing yet

• directly going up to someone and starting a conversation
• going to school
• going to a therapist
• talking to people on skype

list of things i am doing

• attempting to answer basic questions at church
• actually looking at people
• just being around people

does this explain what point i'm at
i am just doing kinda easy things at first

Fix'd.

[WyWy5000]

I don't understand why you two are making such a big deal about this, please elaborate the reason.
Just Curious, don't hit me :c

[Maxwell23461]

I don't understand why you two are making such a big deal about this, please elaborate the reason.
Just Curious, don't hit me :c

* Maxwell23461 hits you

Some of us are trying to help shy :/

[Blocklandian¹]

list of things i am not doing yet

• directly going up to someone and starting a conversation
• going to school
• going to a therapist
• talking to people on skype

list of things i am doing

• attempting to answer basic questions at church
• actually looking at people
• just being around people

does this explain what point i'm at
i am just doing kinda easy things at first

You could really try asking your parents for help, Or you could ask a relative for help on how to socialize with others, You could try to find out what thing's others like and see if you also like any of the things they enjoy and try to form a conversation from there to get you started, Going to school could also help you socialize with others and have more opportunities, Being around others can also contribute to having a friendship with them, And eye contact can really help you speak to others better and is very important.