Poll

Which?

Nerdy, cool girl
52 (61.9%)
Christian, nice girl
32 (38.1%)

Total Members Voted: 84

Author Topic: Freek needs help with girls  (Read 7847 times)

Choose the girl that you've known longer.


The fact that you had to edit a quote just proves my point. You haven't understood a word anybody's said here.

Stick your hand down into her banana lair, that should get her to love you!

No but seriously, go for the nerdy one, that's the one I'd choose.

Okay, seriously, it's better to have a girlfriend you can get along with, or one who who has the same interests as you, I should say. Someone who you can really just hang out/listen to music/play games/watch tv with. Sure, love is good, but a relationship shouldn't just be based around it, or it will be misery. Trust me. But if both girls are nice, that can be challenging. But just think about it, because you've known your friend longer than the other girl.

I had to choose before between a long-term friend and someone really nice, but I didn't really know him.

But why do I have the feeling that the "nerdy" girl is going to be extremely needy and ultimately get on Freek's nerves?

The fact that you had to edit a quote just proves my point. You haven't understood a word anybody's said here.
you haven't actually said anything that makes sense. Yeah, the parent could send them to the school. That literally changes nothing, i could name my kid tom instead of bob, it makes no difference.

Most likely the first one is, I'm not sure about the second
youve been friends for four years and you dont know if she games? lol
Okay, seriously, it's better to have a girlfriend you can get along with, or one who who has the same interests as you, I should say. Someone who you can really just hang out/listen to music/play games/watch tv with. Sure, love is good, but a relationship shouldn't just be based around it, or it will be misery. Trust me. But if both girls are nice, that can be challenging. But just think about it, because you've known your friend longer than the other girl.

I had to choose before between a long-term friend and someone really nice, but I didn't really know him.
dont have love pls

"Hey guys, tell me which woman to love because I don't actually love either of them".
Seriously, if you have to ask which one you should go with then you shouldn't go with either because you obviously don't really give a stuff about them, even if they do have sincere feelings towards you, if you did care then you wouldn't need to ask us to make a decision for you
That's exactly what I said!
If you want a helpful opinion, then I'll tell you this.
If you need to consult then I don't think you should pick either because you are obviously not mature enough to be in a relationship. If a relationship was going to go anyway it woulnt be because you flipped a coin over which girl to pick
« Last Edit: December 02, 2012, 11:42:07 AM by BubbaGum »

dont have love pls
love is fine. One can have love all they want. But it shouldn't be the one thing holding a relationship together, is what I'm trying to say. It can cause emotional attachment, and that's good, unless you don't like the person because they treat you badly, or vice-versa. So it's probably best to wait and see if you really like that person and they really like you before you do anything to emotionally attach yourself to that person. Getting used then having a broken heart and stuff like that is just awful.

And this is stupid/getting off-topic, so let's just drop that subject here.

love is fine. One can have love all they want. But it shouldn't be the one thing holding a relationship together, is what I'm trying to say. It can cause emotional attachment, and that's good, unless you don't like the person because they treat you badly, or vice-versa. So it's probably best to wait and see if you really like that person and they really like you before you do anything to emotionally attach yourself to that person. Getting used then having a broken heart and stuff like that is just awful.

And this is stupid/getting off-topic, so let's just drop that subject here.
werent you 13 at the time too lol

I'd bang Lizzy.call me

She is very right though, love with someone you don't like is horrible.
In movies and tv shows one night stands and all that stuff is so glorified but in reality when you don't actually like the person you are with it just isn't an enjoyable thing, not to mention it will often cause you to feel even worse about them.

Lizzy is scaring me omg pls

werent you 13 at the time too lol
she also can't move very well.

She's actually really nice if you meet her
kill all the "nerds"

kill all the hipsters