I lol'd at Tonkka's "apology." It looked as though he kind of wanted to say sorry, but decided to say it in the most condescending and egotistical way possible. In fact, most of his posts in this topic are so arrogant it adds to everyone's accusations of him being an starfish.
As for the people defending him saying Kitton should not have posted, their is this thing normal humans posses called common loving decency. No matter what you feel, if the person you are against experienced a death you grow up, keep your mouth shut, and save it for another day. There have been people I knew in life which i couldn't stand, but when I learned they experienced a death I still told them I'm sorry. Its called not being a stuffty human being.
"She didn't need to post the topic?" You didn't need to post acting like an starfish. Who is doing the most harm? Somebody trying to talk to friend's she made on the forum, or somebody attempting to harass a user over the death of a friend.
Some of you seriously disappoint me. Time to grow up and learn some people skills.