Congratulations on the marriage, that aside, I'm aware stuff happens. I forgave her for cheating and admittedly I could've been better. I would beg to differ that I'm looking at this situation perfectly fine: we live to breed. We live to become the est, and pass on our seed. Ire we don't think about it that way, "my life goal is to have seven sons," but we en up doing that and that ends up being how we effect the entire world.
I understand that the bond between two people is love. I get that. 100%. My point is that the hardcore, bear bones of love is survival.
My advice: don't tell people what they don't know. I didn't mean to snap at you with that last post but really that is such a huge pet peeve of mine.
I don't care about survival. If we were infertile, I'd still want to spend the rest of my life with her.
Maybe some people are more instinctual than others. I don't know, I'm no psychologist.
The thing is, if all you want to do is spread your seed, go without a condom on a bunch of sluts. That'll spread real fast.
If you want a meaningful relationship, look for the right woman.
When things just refuse to work out, it obviously wasn't going to click.
I do believe there is someone for everyone.
Maybe you should travel.
EDIT: And another thing!
Love isn't just limited to mates or what have you. Love is a feeling between families and friends.
Defined in the dictionary, love is "a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person."
or "a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend."
It's not as cold and survivalistic as you think.