Okay, let me express some things.
Kalphiter: You're an annoying douchebag that whines like a bitch about everything that happens to you, example;
http://forum.blockland.us/index.php?topic=216931.0
I also heard that a similar occasisian with BBB when you got banned. Ever since Ephi got his service going you've been nothing but an autistic friend.
Just ignore Ephialtes and his service, I know you like to compare your service with his, but that's an opinion, don't yell at people how yours is better.
Ephialtes: I respect what you do, moderate and keep the forums clean, run a monthly paid $100 hosting service for blockland, worked on a add-on that brung improvement for the past couple years.
But I honestly think you should ignore Kalphiter, you kind of feed him, and I heard you only banned Kalphiter because
you don't like being the same server as him.
Which is handicapped to ban him for, you should have either left, or ignored him, and if he got annoying or was an annoying douche, then I say a ban is justified.
tl;dr: please just keep your arguing/bitching in a PM, or for forgets sake, stay away from eachother.