Author Topic: I'm grounded to "prevent myself from getting bad grades"  (Read 11672 times)

I just had a giant load of fun reading this topic. In fact, I almost dropped my ipad multiple times due to massive laughing attacks

trinick's perspective: "if your parents threaten you and attempt to carry out physical violence on you, defend yourself and level the playing field."
everyone's persepective on tri's: "KILL YOUR PARENTS"

trinick's perspective: "if your parents threaten you and attempt to carry out physical violence on you, defend yourself and level the playing field."
everyone's persepective on tri's: "KILL YOUR PARENTS"
this

I recommend you yell at your dad and mom and rip all your schoolwork up and demand more rights or you'll call child services because being grounded is extreme child abuse and you're your own man and deserve to be treated with respect, then when it's all done seek your own selfish happiness built on other's discontent because all that matters is you and your happiness.

I recommend you yell at your dad and mom and rip all your schoolwork up and demand more rights or you'll call child services because being grounded is extreme child abuse and you're your own man and deserve to be treated with respect, then when it's all done seek your own selfish happiness built on other's discontent because all that matters is you and your happiness.
or just skip all that boring things and blow up the world with anti matter first.

I recommend you yell at your dad and mom and rip all your schoolwork up and demand more rights or you'll call child services because being grounded is extreme child abuse and you're your own man and deserve to be treated with respect, then when it's all done seek your own selfish happiness built on other's discontent because all that matters is you and your happiness.
Yeah!
#$trinicklife

No, it's simple. Use the computer anyway. What the forgets he gonna do about it? Take it away? Go get it back. Break your stuff? Use his. He locks his computer? Reset bios and use a windows recovery disk to reclaim ownership. Set restrictions on the TV? Open it up when he's not home and reset it. Seriously, he'll struggle for maybe a few weeks before giving in. Persistence overcomes all. And before one of you come up with some "he'll beat your ass" excuse, you're a teenager climbing the hill to your physiological peak and he's over the hill and on the physiological decline. If my dad for some reason he wanted to beat the stuff out of me, I'd throw him down the stairs and tell him that if he ever touches me again I'll murder him. If they throw you out, sue them for neglect, child abuse, and emancipation. Then you get all the awesome benefits of being an adult without actually being an adult. It's a win-win. Plus, you can even show your parents the forget up when you proceed to disobey their every command and still do well in school. Show them that you're better than their parenting.
trinick's perspective: "if your parents threaten you and attempt to carry out physical violence on you, defend yourself and level the playing field."
everyone's persepective on tri's: "KILL YOUR PARENTS"
the problem with trinicks plan is that it would create too much conflict and is not good advice for someone who has no friends.

he and his parents would become at odds with eachother and would be more reluctant to help him do things like get a car, get into college, and other various things parents help their children with.

if you show that you dont want their discipline; their help, then you are telling them that you dont need them for anything, and therefore they will treat you as such.

but if you can get a car, get into college, get a job, etc, without any parental assistance/guidance whatsoever, then trinick's plan is for you.
however, like i've said before, if you actually want your parents help and assistance, then you should listen AND obey and not be brought to having to fight your dad over restricted electronic access.

but if you can get a car, get into college, get a job, etc, without any parental assistance/guidance whatsoever, then trinick's plan is for you.
however, like i've said before, if you actually want your parents help and assistance, then you should listen AND obey and not be brought to having to fight your dad over restricted electronic access.
I disagree. My parents bought me a very nice car, my mom has helped me fill out many job applications, and whenever I visit colleges I go with my parents. As I said earlier, I have a fantastic relationship with my family. There was a rough patch where I developed my independence, but after that passed they didn't just stop caring about me all together. If I ask for help, they're willing to help. If your parents go "ur independent u don't need my help" then they're probably douchebags anyway. There's a difference between needing help and needing to be controlled. I still need my parents' help to do big things in my life, but I don't need them to control what I do.

My entire point this whole time hasn't been to use physical force to stop your parents from controlling you. You're essentially using a logical fallacy called straw man to support your argument, and at the same time also applying the ad hominem fallacy too. If my wife told me to stop watching research, my response would be, as expected, dependent on the situation. I can pretty safely say though that beating her and throwing her down a staircase wouldn't be in my options for how to respond. Though, from the way my posts are coming off, I'd have thought that you'd have said "Are you gonna tell your wife to go forget herself when she asks you to stop watching research?" And even that I've already defended myself against. I already said that most peoples (including my own) happiness is dependent on the happiness of others. Me watching research might make me happy, but more than likely her sadness would outweigh the happiness I gain from watching the research and I'd stop. That's not edgy, that's decision making.
If you treat the people above you like crap, then what makes you think that you'll treat the people who you consider below yourself any different?  Furthermore, what makes you think that she will even want to be with you if she witnessed all that crap you give your parents?  "Uh-uh, no thanks, bye."

like grades are even relevant to getting jobs or getting into colleges lol.
colleges just take your word for it that you even HAVE a high school diploma. they dont even ask for the grades.

If you treat the people above you like crap, then what makes you think that you'll treat the people who you consider below yourself any different?  Furthermore, what makes you think that she will even want to be with you if she witnessed all that crap you give your parents?  "Uh-uh, no thanks, bye."
Who is "she"?

Also, I value people based on their abilities, not on innate power positioning. I value my dad on roughly the same level as me, maybe slightly higher because sometimes he still brings up things I haven't heard of when we're talking about astrophysics. I do, however, respect him for his achievements. My mom isn't as bright as my dad is, but she's really good at doing everything she does. I don't treat either of them like stuff. Saying "I would like it if you would please stop disciplining me" didn't quite work, so for a time I had to prove that, even while voiding their advice and commands, I could still meet every other expectation they have of me. I'm not rebellious for the sake of being rebellious, if my mom asks me to go get the groceries or something I'll do it, I do household chores without being asked, and I do most things my parents ask me to do. But the difference is that in my situation, they're asking me to do it. In other situations, they're telling you to do it. There's a huge difference.
« Last Edit: August 19, 2013, 06:49:41 PM by $trinick »

Who is "she"?
he's asssuming your potential future wife will interrogate your parents and get them to spill the real beans, that all along they secretly loathed you and didn't even want you to be their child! or whatever fits into his paradigm.

i treated my parents like stuff when i was 18 and moving on. now they are more on a friends level and i respect them more.
but the second my mom lectures me or questions what i do, i lay into her and she stfu and all is cool again.

i am not the least bit concerned over what my girlfriends think about my relationship with my parents. that isnt important lol

part of being an adult is treating yourself like an adult. and being a mommas boy is far from it.

i treated my parents like stuff when i was 18 and moving on. now they are more on a friends level and i respect them more.
but the second my mom lectures me or questions what i do, i lay into her and she stfu and all is cool again.

i am not the least bit concerned over what my girlfriends think about my relationship with my parents. that isnt important lol

part of being an adult is treating yourself like an adult. and being a mommas boy is far from it.
This, but I don't really treat them like stuff and I started when I was 16. As he said, they're more on a friend level and I also respect my parents more now. I do give my mom a lot of stuff when she lectures me, but she's quick to shut up.

i got a c in social studies one time in 6th grade
even with the 2 a(s) and everything else being a b i still got grounded from fun stuff
never again