Author Topic: I'm grounded to "prevent myself from getting bad grades"  (Read 11727 times)

OP just man up and deal with it.  idk what the forget is with everyone going "oh god what horrible parents" or "how unfair", tough stuff you forgeted up and now your parents want to see you get set straight.  time to pick up a new hobby.

i had it much worse, i'd get grounded for MONTHS at a time due to the length of time between progress reports.  last time i got grounded was middle school.  if you keep a balance in your life between academics and everything else you should be fine.  if you're struggling, get help, seriously.
yeah really
I don't want to pull the autism card but it's hard for me to do work when I know when I get home there is nothing I can do. I don't have friends at school. I make friends with my older brothers and sisters but they never talk to me or hang out.

I don't want to pull the autism card but it's hard for me to do work when I know when I get home there is nothing I can do. I don't have friends at school. I make friends with my older brothers and sisters but they never talk to me or hang out.
Homework, study, internet research (not games or blockland forums)

Come on man try harder. Don't end up a crack whore on the street.

I would seriously recommend not listening to Trinick's advice, he's an angsty script kiddie with a narcissism disorder that literally prevents him from getting along with anyone.
This is just so ridiculously over the top and untrue its actually funny.

Trinick is a great guy. He's made mistakes like everyone else but I have not heard once from a person who kept in regular contact with him say anything negative.

i would suggest your advice if OP was like 20, in college and still dependent on their parents.  but he's like 14 and dependent, so no.
But pretty much this. Leaving home at anything under 17 without your parents being abusive is just ridiculous.

$trinick logic:

if your parents do something you dont like, beat them up

I'm not recommending you go attack your parent to show them who is boss

I would seriously recommend not listening to Trinick's advice, he's an angsty script kiddie with a narcissism disorder that literally prevents him from getting along with anyone.
Yeah and if you beat up your parents when they try to help you succeed in life and then ask for respect after giving you literally everything you have in life then you need to call up a mental institution because you're a loving crackpot.
I would seriously recommend you stop throwing around insults that you don't even understand. I'm not defined at all by the term "script kiddie." The hacks you're associating with me were developed by the people I associate with, using some of my research without my consent. I'm what you call a programmer. A script kiddie would be the people that are running around using the hack. Also, I don't see where you're getting angsty from at all. Angst is related to anxiety; I have a very relaxed world view. The way the world works is simple. My world view is the antipode of angsty. Also; congrats. You can whip out a disorder I have as an argument against me. You've got the arguing skills of a seven year old. You should also probably call trogtor autistic next time you disagree with him, just blame everything on that. Good idea.

Trinick is a great guy.
I don't mean to milk this, but it's coming from the same guy that posted earlier saying
And please, if you can, call the authorities on trinick.

That means something.
« Last Edit: August 18, 2013, 10:35:27 PM by $trinick »

Because you don't get your way, you are mad? Maybe if you got good grades your parents could trust that you can do other things. Which has probably been said. I just do all my work at school. I used to have a limit of 3 hours a day on the computer while school was on. Because I figured a good way to get good grades I got my parents trust back. Now not all parents are the same so I don't know if it would help. Try to use time like before school, after school, lunch to do work that you would be doing at home.

Cool. If your parents make you their bitch you need to stop reading my messages and call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) right now. This is not acceptable behavior from parents.
i can see your point with how if you're 17+ and getting spanked; that's not at all what parenting strategy should be in action at that age and should speak up about it, but if you START the fight and get shut down, you cant really call an abuse line.

and if you have parents that are just straight up abusive and provide no lee-way for negotiation and make your life literal hell, i can see $trinick's point

I would seriously recommend you stop throwing around insults that you don't even understand. I'm not defined at all by the term "script kiddie." The hacks you're associating with me were developed by the people I associate with, using some of my research without my consent. I'm what you call a programmer. A script kiddie would be the people that are running around using the hack.
I never said anything about your involvement with DotDotCircle and the whole other slew of troublesome members that you can easily be lumped together with, the whole "just circumvent ur dads restriectons xP" stuff is what defines you as a script kiddie.

whatever you want to call yourself, you're just another kid who thinks he's Steven Hawking because he can create scripts that give him advantages in certain situations.

Also, I don't see where you're getting angsty from at all. Angst is related to anxiety;
thinking that throwing your father down a staircase and then threatening to murder him is okay in any way shape or form is pretty damn angsty

I have a very relaxed world view. The way the world works is simple. My world view is the antipode of angsty.
Your 'world view' is basically 'forget everyone who's actually done it and throw yourself blindly into the world and pretend it's going to support you'

Also; congrats. You can whip out a disorder I have as an argument against me. You've got the arguing skills of a seven year old. You should also probably call trogdor autistic next time you disagree with him, just blame everything on that. Good idea.
yeah well I wouldn't take worldly advice from someone with autism either tbh

I'm not defined at all by the term "script kiddie."

uh when did we say this


i said it in response to him saying stuff about circumventing your parents computer restrictions and pretend it's going to fix the issue

Perhaps you should do better in school.

Perhaps you should do better in school.
This. You should treat a problem at its roots, and that consists of you sucking richard at school.

Get your school stuff straight before you complain about punishment, because no matter how severe it is, you still suck richard at school.

I was in a similar predicament at my house too OP, what I did was I started studying hard for tests and I showed them the grades when I got them.

Using that as leverage in a civil conversation I convinced them to unban me from my computer, so I wouldn't have to wait half a year for my report card. The best part? I didn't have to throw my parents down a staircase and threaten to murder them.

I don't want to pull the autism card but it's hard for me to do work when I know when I get home there is nothing I can do. I don't have friends at school. I make friends with my older brothers and sisters but they never talk to me or hang out.
yeah i thought the same thing when i got grounded because i had no friends that i could hang out with in my neighborhood or anything and basically my free time was just being on the internet or playing video games

you get over it and you do other things.  you read, you draw, you do stuff with other material goods...

you read

SUCH AN EVIL THING TO SUGGEST

Well there is nothing I can do about it now except just try

I hope my dad will see something good by the time GTA 5 comes out (which I preordered it)

because I really wanna forgetin play that game
« Last Edit: August 18, 2013, 11:04:51 PM by Trogtor »