The point is:
If you don't want people to kick/ban/ignore you, then don't give them a reason to not like you.  If you're being a friend to people and being a total social mess, they will not want to deal with your stuff.  There's no "I changed" or "I think that ban was unreasonable, IMO."  If you slip up, people aren't going to care.  If someone started being annoying, I'd tell them to shut up.  If they don't think that shutting up is a good idea, I ban them.  If they spam me over RTB, I will tell them to not message me about appeals until their ban runs out.  If they continue to beg, I permaban them and block them.  This goes for anyone.