Victimizing yourself on the forum.
Falling into bad habits.
Feeding people what they wan.t
Don't do any of them really. If you can recognize one of them happening, try to stop it.
These are the steps I take now to avoid drama. But, it happens anyways.
Starzy is probably flaming you because he thinks you're an idiot that deserves it.
That's pretty much this whole situation summed up.