A secant line intersects a curve at exactly two places, a tangent line intersects a curve at exactly one place
Consider the function y = x^2
At x = 1, the slope of the tangent line is 1
For the secant line to have the same slope as the tangent line, it would need to intersect the curve at x = 0 and x = 1
A derivative is always giving the slope of a tangent line, since a derivative is a singular point. A secant line is more of an average between two points. When the distance between the two intersections of a secant line become infinitely close together, it becomes a tangent line.