In the brain, loveuality and gender are defined as brown townog quantities at the base level. You can't "get" those base brown townog quantities because the human brain doesn't have consciously accessible functions to check itself like that. However, using your own perception of your personality (and other factors), you can create an brown townog (draw a picture, I guess, or use a special term like "gorillaloveual") or digital (explaining it discretely using the common binary terms or something else almost everyone will understand, like "biloveual") representation of your gender and loveuality from that.