since when am i reminding people of this fact?? People tend to forget that I'm aloveual but i don't really care. and i don't even use the word ace to describe myself.
Was I addressing you personally?
It's not with people bringing up their loveuality (although there are some people who do that a lot), but bringing up the fact that they're proud of their loveuality. Why does anyone need to be proud of having a particular loveuality?
And before someone jumps on that point, I'm not saying people should be ashamed about their loveuality. But it's possible to be entirely neutral about it.
I'm not ashamed of my loveuality, but it doesn't give me any reason to be proud either. It just is what I am. Nothing worth celebrating nor feeling bad about. That's the issue that lots of people have with loveual pride and flamboyancy.
yes... that is exactly what it means. do you have a better solution?
Just call yourself an aloveual. Seems a lot easier than calling yourself "ace" (which clearly has a completely different meaning and will almost always be misunderstood by someone unaware of the term), and then having to waste the time in the conversation to correct someone. When that happens you're not exactly saving the time it would otherwise take to just say "aloveual".
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