As much as you guys would like to think it's as simple as finding a server that doesn't have rules against cussing, it's not that easy anymore.
There are not a lot of good servers out there anymore, so if you end up finding an actually 'good' server that isn't some stuffty Family RP or anything like that, you probably won't find someone else hosting it. A good server is usually the only of its kind. So thus, you like the concept of a server, but it has this rule, you're forgeted. You can't just find another server of the same type.