What I've found is this.
Please don't come into a server and ask for the admin pass. Especially when the server is a freebuild. Note the word. freebuild not freeupload... jeebus.
And another thing. A bunch of people came into my server and spammed the crap out of it, told me they could fix it, when I told them the admin pass, they banned like everybody. Thats my newbie moment, I've learned from it, do noobs? NO. THEY DON'T LEARN.
Never ever use "t, up key, enter, enter, enter, enter, enter.. you get it"
And yes, I also realize that no noob will ever see this post, and no noob will ever change there ways. My only hope of posting this and supporting this topic is that, people who do host servers, no matter what rule they did or did not break, if they start doing something stupid like asking for the pass, please have the balls to ban them. Not forever, just enough to make them realize they did a bad thing. That way, when all the servers start doing that, then maybe the noobs will stop. Or they won't play. Its their choice.
So sir, I support your post. And I hope people will take me up on my offer. But don't be noobish about it yourself. Someones name, for example, does not give them the right to be banned.