It doesn't really matter if he said starfish for friend he still broke the flame rule.
not really.
if you actually read it, it says "if the entire point of your post is to tell them what an idiot they are, don't bother"
i wasn't saying it specifically to creativename, and it was on-topic with what the topic was about.
the difference is pretty big, and with what you're saying, everyone who said "friend" to someone should be banned.