i think if the reaction were "oh wait why does this person assume i'll be an issue? i really want to play on this server so i should try to respectfully reach out to the administration to get this sorted out!" and not, "this man is a tyrant, a crook, and he has been unjust towards me! i am notifying his superiors in the hopes that he will be effectively GG'd immediately." this entire situation would not have to exist
i don't want to sound accusatory or anything but honestly