there is no misunderstanding. there's only you being a child and lying about it. its not like being a child is discouraged on here, just come clean with it.
and if your voice is too personal, how are your wedding plans not?
I am free to talk about this in PMs
i think you're misunderstanding something for sure
saying my wedding is in illinois isn't really sharing something personal,
also, the blf has been a pretty big part of my time for years, it's something i'm comfortable to share.