I'd like to think it's simply an adolescence sort of thing, but I've never stuck around those people long enough to find out, so who knows.
You seemed ambivalent as to whether the annoying trope continued beyond adolescence.
Perhaps I didn't read thoroughly enough, I just skipped to page 5 so I wasn't really sure what position you'd taken.
No, it's based on what I see everywhere. It is evident just about anywhere. This is one of the few valid generalizations that exist. The problem is not that a gay person is being openly gay. The problem is that a person believes they are somehow special because they are gay (FYI, they really aren't. I would also like a citation on that "life difficulty" bit, please.), while still insisting that they are no different from any straight person. I'm not really talking so much about the individual as I am the mindset that has been created by all this mess.
Sorry, I didn't realize you're omniscient. You've observed every single LGBT person on the planet right?
"One of the few valid generalizations"
As far as I'm conserved, no generalization is valid
I'm sure there are people whose entire identity revolves around their loveuality. That is a consequence of being a self-absorbed person, not being gay.
Here's a good citation:
40% of the homeless youth served by agencies identify as LGBT [Williams Institute, 2012]
43% of clients served by drop-in centers identified as LGBT
30% of street outreach clients identified as LGBT
30% of clients utilizing housing programs identified as LGBT
despite being 5-8% of the american population, 40% of the homeless youth are gay.
you can be legally:
fired
evicted
denied a loan
have your child expelled
gay youth are twice as likely as their peers to say they have been physically assaulted, kicked, or shoved at school
LGBT teenagers are 2 or 3 times more likely to attempt Self Delete than other teens. if their family does not accept them, they are 8x more likely to commit Self Delete than other teens.
shall i go on? i only focused on LGBT youth here, there's a plethora of other issues
Not my exact point, but may help you to understand it.
i've seen this video.
k&p made this video not as a stereotype of gay men, but as a criticism of those who do make their entire identity about their loveuality
hell, the 'main character' is revealed to be gay at the end
you misinterpreted the video if you think that means that this applies to "a decent portion" of the community