Author Topic: Commemorating the life of Thorfin25  (Read 42361 times)

Thorfin was the last person I'd expect to do this. He was a great man and an even better friend. We worked on many projects together.

Rest in peace.


It's just terrible to see someone with seemingly nothing wrong feel so alone that it came to this point. From the statuses in OP it seems like he felt he had nobody to go to.

We recently had somebody take their life due to depression on another forum I belonged to as well. Its amazing to see how communities, despite rarely knowing each other on a personal level, can come together in times like this. On this other forum after hearing the news another member made a post talking about his own depression and how others could always come to him to talk, and about 20 others came in and also volunteered to listen to anyone going through problems. Just in an effort to try to prevent another Self Delete in the future. I'm thinking of starting a thread like that here. So members can talk about any anxiety or depression they have and know they are not alone and have people they can talk to.
Hella late, but I feel like this needs addressing.
Yes, we have a portion of the community that does a great job of coming together at times like this. Unfortunately, as far as I have observed, this community on the whole has a particular richardishness about it that (among other things) tends to take Self Delete, depression, and suchlike as a laughing matter. Hell, just look at the number of times phrases like "kill yourself" come up, it was a pretty common thing (though I been gone a while). It stops being funny the precise moment that someone actually does it, and even still you get richardwads dropping in and laughing at others pain.
I'm pretty sure that any thread we made about depression issues would quickly be filled with "attention whoring" or parodies thereof (and we might not even be able to tell the difference), alongside a couple people persistently making a mockery of the issue and insulting everyone involved, saying things like "your problems don't matter", "nobody cares", "lel Self Delete by stab", and suchlike.
That said, the community also tends to be more accepting of such things if they're brought up by well-established, well-respected members. If, for example, me, or maybe Moltenkitten were to make a depression thread, the scorn would be strong enough to immolate a computer. Destroyer, on the other hand, could probably pull it off.

Please, Destroyer.  Please make that thread.  I agree that we need a conmon place to vent.  We all have our baggage and perhaps it would help for us to see that we're not alone.  Though I can't say for sure how it will turn out with some of the less empathetic users joining in, but I think it would be good to know that we have someone listening, maybe even keeping us accountable.
« Last Edit: May 04, 2015, 07:56:19 PM by SWAT One »



you're funny
he could've mistaken for thorfin leaving
dont be too harsh

So this happened on the memorial server :P
In poor taste if you ask me...

I find dealing with tragedy by means of comedy much easier, even if it is poor taste.

But Self Delete without a purpose is one of the most disappointing and pointless things ever.

I find dealing with tragedy by means of comedy much easier, even if it is poor taste.
That's great, keep your stuffty jokes to yourself then. Like, really.

he could've mistaken for thorfin leaving
dont be too harsh
If he read the first line of the topic& @@!!!


Recalled this today.
I was on the other half that didn't get perma-banned ^_^


The only time I've interacted with him was on Glass' Trench Wars. I killed him and he said "good thing i'm not a badmin"(as if he was gonna ban me or something) which made me laugh. I've seen him post on the forum a few times and he seemed like a cool guy.

Rest in piece. You will not be forgotten.

Recalled this today.
oh wow I completely forgot about that, apparently I hated him a bit and he hated me a bit.
looking back on it I wish I hadn't droned on with that drama, I mean I could've done what I usually do now and say my point and leave. maybe I was frustrated at the time and I just had to go on.
searching I never said anything nice to thorfin and he never said anything nice to me, but before this I thought he was quite a helpful person.

regardless, rest in peace.