feminism is straight-up not about anything other than egalitarianism. i don't particularly care if that sounds like a no-true-scotsman fallacy or not (it isn't
really one anyway because we're not using this to flippantly deny a problem, we're using it to say they're just obnoxious people being obnoxious. that isn't fallacious, and in fact, people that are denying claims simply because they see something that resembles 'no true scotsman' are using the
fallacy fallacy). people that seek to promote one love as inherently better are loveist. and feminism is not about promoting loveism.
this isn't about denying there's a problem. nobody from the outside looking into this mess would believe there isn't one. this is about acknowledging that people can be ridiculous and insane and those people are not valid representatives of any [broad] group they claim to be a part of. this goes for anything. it's just the same as saying all
real, modern muslims are like CIA (ok i'll concede there's a pretty significant difference between murder and being dumb on the internet, i'm just talking about general principles here), that all
real, modern christians are like westboro, or that all
real, modern gamers are hateful. you can't arbitrarily qualify a group and then extend personality onto its perceived members.
feminism is not a group, it is not a hivemind; it is a concept of egalitarianism and absolutely nothing more. when you try and define it as a group of people rather than as an ideology, you'll start to tread into extremely goofy waters if you aren't careful. the same can be said for political ideologies like communism or capitalism or liberalism or what have you; it's simply illogical to try and give personality to something that's just a complex system of ideas.
this isn't really a particularly high-quality post in terms of tone but hopefully it doesn't impair the message too severely