I don't give a stuff about your gender or love or whatever special snowflake thing people cook up as long as the whole point of it is not to gain attention/drama/whatever. It's your life, go ahead.
This whole drama smells a bit attention-whory too. Exactly what is the point? If I say 'i don't like transgender people for x and y' will that make me bad in your eyes? Even if i never raise a voice against trans people?
A better way to put it would be 'who actually attacks transgender people', but even then, if they are going to attack you you will find out either way, no?
Me: *Doesn't really enjoy being insulted and called a handicap*
Me: Hey everyone if you are going to insult me and call me a handicap, please tell me here so I don't waste my time joining your server and causing unnecessary problems, as well as kinda loving up my mood for the evening.
Blockhead1134: I will insult you and call you a handicap if you join my server.
Me: *browsing the server list in Blockland later* Oh look, Blockhead1134's server, better not go in there and cause unnecessary problems and forget up my mood for the evening.
Is this the wrong thing to do? If someone can think of a better solution please enlighten me and I'll lock this.