am i a bad person for this?

[SquartleTurtle]

it's not about not being attracted to her

yes it is

[Ad Bot]

[sir dooble]

If the story is like he says it is, then the girl knows exactly why he cut contact.

Well, you don't actually know that.
He said basically nothing to her.

She might not have a clue it was because she's fat.
And I don't want to be the guy who starts questioning how we can trust what hillkill has said (although I guess I am now), but we've not seen how fat this girl was, or how fat she appeared in the photos she sent. I mean, for all we know, he overreacted to her not being skinny.

It's not like she turned out to be a 40 year old man.

[Nickpb 2.0]

are you implying the whale didn't know she was sending fat girl angle pictures?
lmfao ofc she knew why he walked away. She lied/covered up a major feature she has. Not saying it makes her less of a human in fact it makes her MUCH more of a human  

[Nonnel]

fat girl angles are very, very real

[Harm94]

Not really op sine you are the guy that claims drinking water makes you sick and the only thing you can drink is soda.

But seriously, cutting off contact like that is pretty rude.

[FizzyFuz]

No, you aren't a bad person unless you're in it for the special interest. If you think that's a problem with her, then that's what you think is wrong with her. I'm sure she will have the slightest chance of understanding if you tell her in a nice way.

[Foxscotch]

what do you expect? him to accept the stuffcake and eat it?

um, I expect him to not be a richardhead. idk where you keep getting the idea that I think he should date her

yes it is

so u gotta be attracted to someone to not be a jerk? ok

[otto-san]

i'm pretty sure he agrees that what he did wasn't a great way to handle the situation. the prob is the anxiety associated with that information. i don't think it's super necessary to describe how anxiety can make this kind of thing harder. he acted impulsively and doesn't know what to do about it now, or more accurately, is too anxious to actually go through with it.

the right thing to do is obviously to unblock her, apologise, and be honest. it'll do everyone a lot more good in the long run. actually carrying that out is a psychological trial that he'll have to overcome on his own (or not)

[Nickpb 2.0]

 Or just ignore the problem(that isn't a problem to begin with) and you will forget about it when you meet a cool not whale lady who makes you smile and giggle <3

[tnatsissA]

You should stick to 40 year old men

[Flame]

You should stick to 40 year old men

this tbh... ol' reliable

[Mr.Noßody]

Responding to nothing but the topic title: No, you're a bad person for using clickbait topic titles.

[Nonnel]

i'm pretty sure he agrees that what he did wasn't a great way to handle the situation. the prob is the anxiety associated with that information. i don't think it's super necessary to describe how anxiety can make this kind of thing harder. he acted impulsively and doesn't know what to do about it now, or more accurately, is too anxious to actually go through with it.

the right thing to do is obviously to unblock her, apologise, and be honest. it'll do everyone a lot more good in the long run. actually carrying that out is a psychological trial that he'll have to overcome on his own (or not)

apologizing would've been viable two weeks ago, but it's far too late now. it'd be better to just keep the end where it is and not drag it out

[Foxscotch]

apologizing would've been viable two weeks ago, but it's far too late now.

how is it too late? people apologize for things that are years old all the time

[Nonnel]

how is it too late? people apologize for things that are years old all the time

i explained that but you cut that part of the quote out. she'll have gotten over it or be in the process to get over it by now, it's no use twisting the knife and bringing it back up. i'd say the chance probably left when he blocked her, otherwise it would still be an option