Author Topic: not sure if this girls thinks of me as her friend; mixed signals  (Read 1552 times)

normally during the school day, she will rarely talk to me and will avoid me at times, will pretty much only respond to hellos and goodbyes. one time she even asked me to stop staring at her (when i wasn't btw). during the football games, she's all buddy buddy with me, and social-able and such. i'm really confused if i'm her friend or not.
Everything in red indicates that she doesn't like you.

Everything in green indicates that she likes you.

Notice the pattern.

you were
staring?
how long

Judging by the situation I guess she just talks to you during football because she also wants to talk with everyone else in the team, so that means nope, no booty this time.

Everything in red indicates that she doesn't like you.

Everything in green indicates that she likes you.

Notice the pattern.

we're both in the band at the football games, all her friends and stuff are there. i went to a party and she was there and everyone was around and we were laughing and shooting the stuff playing cards against humanity.

also, i don't mean like like, i mean in a friend sort of way.

Don't end up like me, talk to her about it

you were
staring?
how long

one time she even asked me to stop staring at her (when i wasn't btw).

also, i don't mean like like, i mean in a friend sort of way.
Those are very different scenarios.
At band, at a game, she's not likely going to outright ignore you or she'd probably cause a scene.
And at a party, with drink especially, she's not going to ruin her night by actively ignoring you or fighting you.

It's easy to be friendly to people in public, to keep up appearances and not create issues, yet not actually like them (guess what guys,i t's easy online too, you don't always have to be rude to people you don't like!).


I would say she probably doesn't like you, given her attitude in less public situations.

we did have a few drinks at the party, so i guess we were both feeling good


we did have a few drinks at the party, so i guess we were both feeling good
hillkill u r a minor


Shoot up a school it'll make you feel better

Don't pursue it if it isn't clear. Girls at that age are loving annoying anyways.

Shoot up a school it'll make you feel better
yea if girls reject you, then shooting em is a popular option. it'll get you plenty of attention at least

bring a gun and force her to tell the truth ask if she wants to forget hang out and then see what happens from there.