Some servers are BS, but I treat them and their admins accordingly. I joined this server of this person who wanted to join a clan, which was obvious because the name of the server pointed that out.
Anyhow, I started to build, then I figured I would see what kind of vehicles the server had. I spawned the F18 or whatever it was to see what it was like, since I was probably never going to download it. I shortly got out of the plane, to notice that the actual host of the server was trying to at first wrench my vehicle spawn, then normal wand it, then he finally figured out that he had to use the destructo wand to get rid of bricks that weren't his. When he finally found out how to clear someone elses brick, he said "dont fly planes they lag" I pointed out to him that there were like 100 bricks, and everyone was afk on a slate map, and also said, "Why bother even having vehicles on the server if you aren't going to let people use them?" He then replied, "dude dont talk back ill boot you" So I stopped, just to see what he would do. He then started to hit me with the destructo wand a couple of times, then said "i beat yo a$$ son"; Just like that. I responded by loading my box trap macro, trapping him, then leaving instantly. I then rejoined to call him a friend, then left for good. Did I get banned? No.
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