Dismissive post
How is that dismissive at all
you were all riled up because he made an apology and is acting better, and you say "forget your feelings, we owe you nothing." He doesn't expect you to owe him anything, just to not assume the worst for him. And sure he does have a right to complain, but he isn't. Then he said to calm down and you called it dismissive. It's not like he was saying that no one cares, he was saying to calm the forget down
So just deal with it and for once in your life notice change.