are you joining family rps other than sugar's?
or really anything with rp in the name
sugar's is really the only one that attracts anyone not new
any old-user-host servers also attracts old players
i get a lot of everyone on my server, mostly cause I know a lot of low BLID-ers, but servers like trogtors or theblackparrots (when he's developing new servers or something) also get a lot of them. sugar's is only popular cause a lot of the oldcigarettes frequent the forums => know about sugar and the hilarity that happens on occasion and so want to meet her in person => when on the server, find a lot of other oldcigarettes and then end up staying for conversation as well.