Just update, you're going to have to eventually anyway. It's not a steep learning curve at all because I adjusted quickly.
this post makes me think you're trying to fit into the IT crowd or something and failing miserably.
also use GWX control panel and get rid of it, please don't stop installing all updates because of microsofts stuff, i can't wait till august when they pull the plug on this bullstuff.
in windows 7 you can hide specific updates for them to never be installed.