Author Topic: issues with my father  (Read 1755 times)

shut up monday you don't even have a dad
no dad > abusive dad tbh
although i still feel bad when fathers day comes

no dad > abusive dad tbh
although i still feel bad when fathers day comes
how would you know which is better if you've never gotten to experience both.

how would you know which is better if you've never gotten to experience both.

« Last Edit: May 06, 2016, 11:26:29 AM by Path »

IMO I'd rather have no dad than having to live through constant stress of having an abusive one

If I've learned anything from experience it's way better to confront him and stand up for yourself/others than to sit through his abuse and take it.

If I've learned anything from experience it's way better to confront him and stand up for yourself/others than to sit through his abuse and take it.
thats one way to finna get a broken jaw

thats one way to finna get a broken jaw
and breaking your sons jaw is one way to end up in jail.

I'm sorry to hear your dad's behaving abusively towards you man. Hopefully some day you'll be able to move out and avoid him.

call social services

He's a control freak.

One of my old friends had a step dad that didn't give a forget about his privacy. He would read his text messages and once almost strangled him to the border of conciousness. My friend  was only allowed in the house under strict circumstances. Otherwise he would sit outside and get hourly check up calls that he's actually outside. When he was over he'd go to my balcony to answer so that it would seem like he was outside.

You need professional help OP. My biggest regret is not calling the authorities on that guy because he clearly knows jack stuff about parenting. That's probably my friend's regret as well. Please do it. It can only help.

I'll share a story my mother told me that happened to her when she was a teenager, not sure if it will be useful on your situation but who knows.

Anyway my mother told me that she and her brothers was injured by my grandpa countless times, he used to work on three different jobs and he was stressed almost all the time, at the point that if his children misbehave or get a bad grade or other reasons he grabbed his belt and used to hit them, until one day my mother was really tired of his stuff because he was screaming at her so she throwed him on the couch and told a lot of things that were in her mind about him, in conclusion he started crying and stayed there for a couple hours, until that day he stopped hurting them.

So you could try confronting your dad and convince him that he has to stop his stuff, that never happened to me because my parents are cool with me so I'm not really sure.
« Last Edit: May 07, 2016, 12:49:33 AM by Filipe »

Remind me not to forget with Filipe's mom

Remind me not to forget with Filipe's mom
but then filipe wouldn't have you as a step-dad

sounds like a white people problem

Blacks don't even have dads so ya, it is.

shut up monday you don't even have a dad

shut up!!! all of you!!!

my dad never goes to the doctor because "they are just useless money grabbing jews".
Once there will come a day where a "useless money grabbing jew" will save his live.