You have alot to learn about real life if you think being happy and successful is an effortless task for anyone.
No, what I said (based off what you said) was that people who are happy and successful then don't usually run into difficulty because they're
happy and
successful, barring circumstances beyond their control (such as diseases or disasters) or things they do that to themselves (such as having an affair or drug abuse).
The black people you refer to as successful all share stories about how theyve had to work hard to achieve the same sucess.
What, do you think white people just become successful by being born?
Maybe you should look up this little known artist called "Eminem", or take a gander into the history of Jim Carrey. There's plenty of people of ALL RACES that have overcome great adversity to make great success.
Just because a few people can overcome the struggle doesnt mean its easy for everyone.
That is, by the nature of the word "struggle", what it means; it's difficult to overcome.
If i had aids, i cannot say "oh this wont effect me" because the reality of the situation is that it does.
AIDS is a disease with real physical and psychological affects that quite literally prevent you from doing the same things everybody else can. The colour of your skin by itself does not physically prevent you from doing anything; its the factors surrounding you and your genetic makeup.
The fact that you want to compare your situation to those with AIDS is quite shocking.