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apparently i'm a "know it all" in people's eyes when i correct them on something
Foxscotch:
--- Quote from: R3DRobo on January 15, 2017, 11:14:48 PM ---What it teaches your kid depends on what the parent says after the spanking.
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nope. it doesn't matter what you say, it teaches them that violence is a solution. if you explicitly tell them that violence is wrong right after, then what they learn is that they can't trust their parents to do the right thing. anything else you could possibly tell them would not make them understand that violence isn't a solution
--- Quote from: Insert Name Here² on January 15, 2017, 11:18:50 PM ---Also spanking them doesn't teach them that violence solves their problems. If you as their parent had a problem and the parent responded in violence or aggression, then that would be teaching the kids that violence solves problems
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why do you think that a child would be less likely to think what a parent does to them is right, than to think that what the parent did to someone else was right?
Insert Name Here²:
--- Quote from: Foxscotch on January 15, 2017, 11:21:20 PM ---why do you think that a child would be less likely to think what a parent does to them is right, than to think that what the parent did to someone else was right?
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I never said or implied that it's right or not? I was just giving an example of what "teaching them that violence solves their problems" really is?
R3DRobo:
--- Quote from: Foxscotch on January 15, 2017, 11:21:20 PM ---nope. it doesn't matter what you say, it teaches them that violence is a solution.
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Do you have anything to back that up? I don't solve my problems by resorting to violence at all. Most of the friends I grew up with in similar household standards have not done so. I think there are more factors to this that you are overlooking.
Ragequit:
bitch spanking is just a slap on the ass it's not gonna break a kids loving ass bones and give them ptsd
R3DRobo:
--- Quote from: Ragequit on January 15, 2017, 11:29:58 PM ---bitch spanking is just a slap on the ass it's not gonna break a kids loving ass bones and give them ptsd
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I don't think people here don't know well enough about the fine line between a spanking and a beating. It makes me think that they think we're taking baseball bats to their rear-ends.