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Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?
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PhantOS:

--- Quote from: Headcrab Zombie on August 21, 2017, 02:27:36 PM ---If everyone involved in a relationship is happy, consenting, and no one is hurt, then telling them "your relationship is unhealthy" is nothing more than being judgemental

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alright i'm sorry, i tend to come into topics hot and not really see the big picture. i admit i was being too judgemental

either way, i still honestly believe that as long as you're happy that's all that matters. it may not be a fully stable relationship, but thats not the point
Remurr:
i had one for 1 1/2 years. it was extremely difficult and we ran into problems, but we loved each other nonetheless. saw her in person for the first time after we began dating about two and a half years after we broke up, and we made amends but it was kind of awkward for both of us at first
Shift Kitty:
I was personally in a long distance relationship for about 8 or 9 years. Though the fact that we were both aloveual probably helped with the whole 'not needing love' thing.

She ended up moving away within the first few months, due to family issues. And we were only able to see each other twice since, 3 days each time.

However, it ended up not working out. There was no future and decreasing amount of communication. I was trying to make things work but. When it comes to something like that, both people need to try and make it work and that just wasn't happening. Just excuses.
TheABELBOTO:

--- Quote from: Shift Kitty on August 21, 2017, 04:26:30 PM ---I was personally in a long distance relationship for about 8 or 9 years. Though the fact that we were both aloveual probably helped with the whole 'not needing love' thing.

She ended up moving away within the first few months, due to family issues. And we were only able to see each other twice since, 3 days each time.

However, it ended up not working out. There was no future and decreasing amount of communication. I was trying to make things work but. When it comes to something like that, both people need to try and make it work and that just wasn't happening. Just excuses.

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9 years?! holy stuff dude I'm sorry
SWAT One:

--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 02:08:54 PM ---i am objectively right. you committed, one of the two options you can take in an ldr. congratulations on your marriage by the way, and i actually mean that

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You were saying "don't" in the segment I quoted. You stated it like it's an absolute, and that's what I disputed. Do you think you're either doing people a service at-large or a disservice at-large, because I don't there's any realistic way to treat it like a broad brush issue.
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