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Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?
Red Spy:
i probably side closer to path when it comes to ldrs but this thread is a dumpster fire
Foxscotch:
my boyfriend lives in brazil. I went to see him for a week back in march and I'm planning another trip in a few months or so. so yes
at the very least, it won't do you any harm. it's probably less stressful? maybe. at least you'd be able to see each other more often, and not have to deal with immigration qq
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:26:16 PM ---its literally the truth. ldrs don't exist. it's not a relationship to just talk to someone about love and how much you love them and then not have love or do anything that shows you love them
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--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:28:34 PM ---ldrs have no form of commitment, financial aspect, or intimacy, which means they can't function at all. its literally that simple. as soon as you find someone that can commit, has some form of income, and is willing to satisfy your loveual needs, then you'll take that over the ldr
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--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:31:54 PM ---that's actually how relations work. people have needs, and relationships are built around those needs. if none of them are being satisfied (the actual case of a long distance relationship) then nothing exists
you didn't read my post. love is one of the 3 or 4 needs in a relationship
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--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:33:55 PM ---are you going to tell me that there's a single long-distance relationship that can sustain itself longer than like, 2 weeks?
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can't be forgeted to quote all the rest but lol
HellHound:
I thought we had already learned that love was just a chemical reaction?
SlayerZ99:
I've been dating my girlfriend for nearly 3 years and while she is home during the summer, we're over 2 hours away when she's at school and since I can't get out there I see her every month or so. It's tough sometimes I guess especially cus I like the physical aspect of a relationship but it's not too bad. We're both busy people so the weeks go by quick.
While mines not technically a long distance, I can understand the difficulties that long distance can cause. But as already stated, if it's meant to be ten it doesn't matter much how far apart but the end goal (obviously) is to physical be together someday.
carolcat:
hi ive been in a long distance relationship for the past 5 or so years what's up