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| Pecon:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:55:32 PM ---then it worked, i congratulate you. its one of the rare cases where you're actually able to commit to a serious relationship. however, it's not the norm. im not quantifying anything, some people can be in a relationship for 2 weeks and absolutely love it. either way, its still not sustainable, and that's a fact --- End quote --- If you're trying to argue that ldrs fall apart frequently, consider that most in-person relationships also fall apart pretty quickly. How well a relationship works is based on each person's personality type and their compatibility with the person they're with, which can take anywhere from a few weeks to many years to find out if they're actually compatible. Saying that you shouldn't get into an ldr just because they tend to fall apart is pretty silly, most relationships fall apart. |
| IkeTheGeneric:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:52:41 PM ---all i know is that ldrs are not worth (my) time. --- End quote --- FTFY Next time you feel the need to drop anecdotal reasons on why somebody should drop their partner like dead weight, try to articulate yourself better next time js also obligatory phanto-esque edit --- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 12:52:41 PM ---'you dont know what you're saying' is a stuff reasoning to disagree with anyone. --- End quote --- You keep saying this, but it's not being any more true. You're full of stuff 99.9% of the time, care to write a four paragraph essay on why this time is different, smart and wise one? |
| Steve5451²:
--- Quote from: Electrk. on August 21, 2017, 12:33:05 PM ---no see women only want money and men only want love its that simple, thats how relationships work or at least thats what /r/theredpill told me --- End quote --- my mom just moved states to live with some rich dude and when she emptied his bank account she had no more use for him and destroyed his computer, burned his bed, and drove off with whatever remaining money he had with soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo |
| IkeTheGeneric:
--- Quote from: Steve5451² on August 21, 2017, 01:03:11 PM ---soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo --- End quote --- The point is, hard-line advice on "How it is" just doesn't work with relationship advice considering it's a case-by-case issue. Path pretending he's in on the know-how when it comes to long distance relationships only works as a stand up skit at best and is completely useless to OP when it comes to actual legitimate advice. |
| PhantOS:
--- Quote from: Pecon on August 21, 2017, 12:59:54 PM ---If you're trying to argue that ldrs fall apart frequently, consider that most in-person relationships also fall apart pretty quickly. How well a relationship works is based on each person's personality type and their compatibility with the person they're with, which can take anywhere from a few weeks to many years to find out if they're actually compatible. Saying that you shouldn't get into an ldr just because they tend to fall apart is pretty silly, most relationships fall apart. --- End quote --- typically real-life relationships are more defined, because you personally know your partner, you know their flaws and their attractive aspects. if you get into a sticky relationship, it'll end fast, but if you find the perfect person, it'll last a really long time and be fulfilling. in an ldr, the lines between those two are entirely blurred. unless you already knew the partner and everything about them prior to the ldr, you'll really idealize them. so you can really be in a long distance relationship with a stuffty person and not know it until you meet them irl. as i said, its a crapshoot, and a lot of teens tend to idolize LDRs to stuff until they realize how hit and miss it can be it really depends on who you are. if you like ldr, then that's fine, but the chances of it forming a real fruitful relationship are very very very slim. some people just like love, some like the money, it's all preference. either way, you can quantify the differences between stronger and weaker relationships. for example, liking someone only for their money is obviously a less real relationship that liking someone for who they are, their loveual experience, and their financial situation. liking someone through ldr is objectively less real that liking some in real life, unless that real life relationship is friends with benefits or sugar daddy/mommy |
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