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Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?
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IkeTheGeneric:

--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:12:41 PM ---you and other people just found it fun to say i dont know what im talking about / invalidate everything i say / call me a redpiller

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this is some crazy narcissistic bullstuff right here

"I was simply just posting my opinions, everyone just got mad like usual!"
PhantOS:

--- Quote from: Rally on August 21, 2017, 01:17:30 PM ---Only 5% of your posts make loving sense. 100% of it is insensitive babble. You're telling people who have poured their hearts into difficult relationships with people that their bond isn't real. Just forget off dude damn

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obviously your bond is real, it's just as real as my bond with, say, drydess or rykuta. i love them to death because they're awesome and i consider them my friends (maybe not mutual)

this is what a long distance bond is. it's liking the person's online personality. if you're already going into pouring your hearts into a mask on the internet, there's probably something wrong.


--- Quote from: IkeTheGeneric on August 21, 2017, 01:18:12 PM ---"I was simply just posting my opinions, everyone just got mad like usual!"

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isn't that what it boils down to? i never told anyone what to do or how to do it. i just stated the facts and the way i make sense of them- either end the ldr, or commit to an irl relationship.
Insert Name Here²:

--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:20:22 PM ---stated the facts
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"Facts"

Opinions =/= Facts bru
IkeTheGeneric:

--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:20:22 PM ---this is what a long distance bond is. it's liking the person's online personality.

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Dude, we're not talking about internet relationships, we're talking about long distance relationships aka personal relationships that go long distance for any period of time. That's sorta what I loving hinted at with the quote you glossed over completely

LDRs aren't supposed to last forever, that's kind of the point, staking it out long distance until they can be personal, healthy relationships again. Your bullstuff about it "not working" doesn't help anyone
Headcrab Zombie:
ITT: people apply their own relationship goals onto others

Everyone has a different goal and idea of what a relationship means to them and what they're looking to get out of it. You can't tell someone "your relationship style isn't the same as mine therefore your relationship is invalid" because it simply doesn't work that way
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