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Did you ever deal with long distance relationships?
Steve5451²:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:49:31 PM ---no i dont? there are multiple needs for a relationship, and its possible, emphasis, possible, to not satisfy all of them, but having the bare minimum doesn't make it a relationship.
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it sure as hell makes it easier but I do not believe that physical contact is absolutely necessary to share a mutually meaningful relationship.
there is so much more to a relationship than being able to put your willy in them. you can love somebody without holding them in your arms; it's emotional intimacy that i find most rewarding.
--- Quote from: Filipe on August 21, 2017, 01:53:49 PM ---Guys please, I would appreciate if you could move this discussion elsewhere, I just wanted to know your stories about the matter.
Speaking of it, if our relationship goes further, we will try to find a way to see each other once or twice per month, so it's not THAT bad so to speak.
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go for it. if it doesn't work out then you two move on.
bloody jumper:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:56:07 PM ---i dont believe in love anyways. i just like my richard sucked
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And suddenly it all makes sense. You don't believe love as possible, so you're projecting on to others, saying that relationships you have no part in definitely won't last.
Filipe:
Can you guys please move this elsewhere? I honestly did not expect 5 Pages of discussion.
PhantOS:
--- Quote from: Steve5451² on August 21, 2017, 01:56:19 PM ---it sure as hell makes it easier but I do not believe that physical contact is absolutely necessary to share a mutually meaningful relationship.
there is so much more to a relationship than being able to put your willy in them. you can love somebody without holding them in your arms; it's emotional intimacy that i find most rewarding.
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some people are aloveual/have stds and still enjoy healthy relationships. as i said, you don't need to satisfy all of the needs, but you definitely can't get far with one
--- Quote from: bloody jumper on August 21, 2017, 01:57:53 PM ---And suddenly it all makes sense. You don't believe love as possible, so you're projecting on to others, saying the relationship definitely won't last.
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love is possible, it's one of the core factors that is required in a relationship. i just don't prefer it. just like some people like ldrs, i like one night stands. i'm happy, she/he's happy, but that doesn't mean its a relationship. you can call it symbiotic, sure, but not romantic
likewise, just talking to somebody alone or just loving them doesn't constitute a romantic relationship. it could be considered a close friendship, or maybe just a relationship, sure, but it can't go on forever in that state
Steve5451²:
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:59:12 PM ---some people are aloveual and still enjoy healthy relationships
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i dated an aloveual girl
--- Quote from: PhantOS on August 21, 2017, 01:59:12 PM ---love is possible, it's one of the core factors that is required in a relationship. i just don't prefer it. just like some people like ldrs, i like one night stands. i'm happy, she/he's happy, but that doesn't mean its a relationship. you can call it symbiotic, sure, but not romantic
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you are an outlier arguing on behalf of people that do enjoy love?
nobody is arguing that you can't enjoy one night stands but please don't argue against people enjoying their half of the deal