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are you oblivious when it comes to flirting?
Foxscotch:
--- Quote from: Red Spy on October 07, 2017, 01:17:24 AM ---knowing you there'd be more than two people involved
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this reads like an insult but I can't imagine how it could be one
Red Spy:
--- Quote from: hillkill on October 07, 2017, 01:27:47 AM ---i don't understand subtlety. what's the point of it? why can't you just directly explain what you actually intend?
i just get kinda confused when people are talking to me because i don't know if their intentions are platonic or flirty. i don't know why.
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actual diagnosable autism
--- Quote from: Foxscotch on October 07, 2017, 01:38:42 AM ---this reads like an insult but I can't imagine how it could be one
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it's not
hillkill:
--- Quote from: McJob on October 07, 2017, 01:34:40 AM ---Did you even read what I said? I gave you three reasons why people flirt as a means to get in. Surely you're not that mentally challenged to also not get this on an intellectual level, as well as the physical one.
Just saying you're interested is scary. It's boring. It comes off as cold and uncaring, and you can't gauge the other person's interest. Was that simple enough for you?
Then you need to start experiencing more. Watch some movies and TV. Talk to more people. Actually try to get in with a chick.
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i've not been interested in anyone since i got rejected like 5 months ago. i'm currently only interested in talking to my current friends.
i can understand why it'd be boring, but i tell mostly everyone i know-- even potential employers-- that i'm an oblivious person. if they need me to know something, they need to tell me directly. i just can't sense if something's intentional or not.
Foxscotch:
that's literally what autism is
Red Spy:
--- Quote from: Foxscotch on October 07, 2017, 01:49:57 AM ---that's literally what autism is
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THAT'S WHAT I'M SAYING