[blogland] Girlfriend wants a (female) forget buddy

[SWAT One]

Also, I would try to determine some how how long this would last.

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[hillkill]

I'd say it's not really polyamory if they're not looking for romantic attachment out of the third. I don't know if I would even call it an open relationship, since they're only going with this singular third person.

you can very easily fall in love with people you have love with.

[Headcrab Zombie]

In all seriousness it all depends. Is your gf just a passing thot you use for fun or is this someone you want to spend the rest of your life with? If it's the latter then definitely not.

You can't make blanket statements like that, it depends on the individual. As I've said, I have many friends who have long lasting and stable relationships with other people involved.

you can very easily fall in love with people you have love with.

Did you read my entire post? I specifically said to avoid it if he's worried about that.
But it sounds like he's more worried about the other girl developing feelings. I'd just make sure she knows it's nothing romantic, and tell his gf to back off if it looks like the other girl is developing feelings

[SWAT One]

You can't make blanket statements like that, it depends on the individual.

Yes, seeing that the common theme, as well as what seems Beachbum's intention is—cover your ass/play it safe—then it it 100% fair play.

[Bisjac]

remember kitton? lol

i totally gave her the go ahead to hook up with a girl if she wanted.
it only took a week. she excitedly hooked up with this chick friend she had. she couldnt wait to tell me about it next morning. cool. then that half story was followed up by her friends husband coming home half way through. ok.
then her friend and her husband forgeted while kitton decided to take a walk around the block. she returned when they wrapped up.

uh huh.... lol
thats not even a good lie. XD

[beachbum111111]

Bisjac got cucked

[Bisjac]

lol pretty much.
my fav kitton story ill share here. not too harsh but its funny.


rtbbot forum account. years back, someone made a birthday topic for it. and we all pretended to wish it happy birthday. i said some inappropriate things i cant remember what, im having a hard time finding the topic. something about hooking up or wanting to hook up with rtbbot i guess.

lot of time goes by.

im dating kitton, and shes forum-search stalking me by keywording my history.
she finds that post i made and accuses me of cheating on her.
now... real person or not, i was hitting on rtbbot in that topic long before i ever met kitton, so cut me some slack.

even now i tell the story of how i was unironically, unjokingly, and very sincerely accused of cheating on someone with a time traveling robot.
the love was great though. with both of them.

[Deus Ex]

remember kitton? lol

i totally gave her the go ahead to hook up with a girl if she wanted.
it only took a week. she excitedly hooked up with this chick friend she had. she couldnt wait to tell me about it next morning. cool. then that half story was followed up by her friends husband coming home half way through. ok.
then her friend and her husband forgeted while kitton decided to take a walk around the block. she returned when they wrapped up.

uh huh.... lol
thats not even a good lie. XD

Jesus christ

[hillkill]

i totally forgot about that. are you guys still dating?

[Deus Ex]

i totally forgot about that. are you guys still dating?

Why would they still be dating after that fam

[hillkill]

Why would they still be dating after that fam

idk i've seen some forgeted relationships that somehow still work out

[Deus Ex]

idk i've seen some forgeted relationships that somehow still work out

Cause people are broken and wounded souls who cling to each other out of familiarity

[Bisjac]

nah that was few years back. shes got more kids and some new guy to take her in now.

[hillkill]

ew kids

[Nonnel]

imo if you've been together a year now then I don't think you want to get wrapped up in something like that